From our over-qualified intern, Sarah. (Congratulations, Sarah!)
Dear readers,
I will return to writing about fun and exciting citizen science projects later this week, but first…
I married my husband David on June 28, 2009 in a beautiful outdoor ceremony at Sheldrake Point Vineyard in Ovid, NY! As my PhD advisor likes to remind me, our marriage did not just unite two soulmates, but also two different scientific genres – David is a cell biologist, while I prefer to stick to subjects related to chemistry. It’s funny in a way, because people think that the science is what David and I have in common, but neither one of us really knows much about what the other is doing in the laboratory, except that we support it! 🙂
Still, the “two-body” problem in science has become a HUGE issue as more and more scientists form families outside of their laboratories. Looking for jobs in this competitive job market can become tricky when you have two people’s careers at stake. David and I talk about this all the time, and ask questions like: “Will we be able to secure fantastic jobs for both of us in the same city?” “If not, who makes the sacrifice in our relationship?” “How will we deal with the pressures of working towards our career goals at the same time?” Unfortunately, as we are just newlyweds, I don’t have many definitive answers that I can share. However, Science Magazine published a fantastic column in 2003 detailing the experiences of one couple navigating the (academic) job market together. Though the article is almost six years old now, I think much of the advice still holds up, and I encourage all of my fellow scientific love birds to take a peek at it for advice and moral support. It is possible to make things work, and several companies and universities have made adjustments in their recruiting practices to try to accommodate scientific couples while still maintaining high hiring standards.
Regardless of what the future holds for David and me as we head towards our bright future, it is comforting to know that the future will always be OURS together. We are incredibly happy, and I know we will continue to make fantastic scientific discoveries by day and have tremendous fun by night!
Until soon, Mrs. (but soon to be Dr!) Sarah Chobot Hokanson
Excellent article!
My wife and I have faced the same issues mentioned here, but in a different way. We met fresh into college- in the first week! Both of us were science majors and earned our Bachelor degrees within a year of each other (mine in chemistry and hers in biology). For graduate school, we figured we’d go somewhere where both of us could get into programs in the same institution or at neighboring ones. I was accepted to Colorado State and my wife at University of Colorado the following year. We split the commute and lived in between for most of our time there. Then, I got a post-doc at UCLA and my wife got a teaching job (her goal), but had to finish up her Doctoral work. Just after she returned form a month back in CO to finish up, we were able to start our family (as if one could plan such things) and the rest is history.
The two-body problem is an issue, but it can be managed- depending on the personalities involved. We did it! So can you!!!
Hi Sarah,
Congratulations on the Mrs. and on the soon-to-be-PhD! I’m glad you found our 2003 feature on dual-career couples useful. I just wanted to point out two more that we published at the end of May — one story on a two-physician couple: http://sciencecareers.sciencemag.org/career_magazine/previous_issues/articles/2009_05_29/caredit.a0900070, and the other a personal essay by half of a dual-Cornell couple: http://sciencecareers.sciencemag.org/career_magazine/previous_issues/articles/2009_05_29/caredit.a0900069
Enjoy!
Kate at Science Careers
Dear Sarah,
Congratulations on the Mrs. and on the soon-to-be-PhD! I’m glad you enjoyed our 2003 feature on dual-career couples. I just wanted to point out two more articles we ran on the subject in May — first, an article about a dual-physician-scientist couple: http://sciencecareers.sciencemag.org/career_magazine/previous_issues/articles/2009_05_29/caredit.a0900070 and an essay by one half of a dual-Cornell couple: http://sciencecareers.sciencemag.org/career_magazine/previous_issues/articles/2009_05_29/caredit.a0900069
Enjoy!
Kate at Science Careers